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❝ Words are, in my not-so-humble opinion, our most inexaustable source of magic. Capable of both inflicting injury, and remedying it. ❞

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reading: the death cure

watching: elementary

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mickibuddy asked: amy + rory or rose?

dw   rose   

Hi. You seem like a pretty knowledgable person and if you can't help me, maybe you might know someone that could. My friend has just been diagnosed with depression and I don't really know how to approach the situation. If I try and act normal he tells me to stop dancing around the situation and if I'm serious he tells me to fuck off. I'm not blaming him at all for what he's doing, I'm sure it's really hard but I would like to know maybe how to help and talk to him. Thank you.


Hi anon!

I’m not very knowledgable on this topic, I’m afraid. I’d recommend that you maybe talk to someone who has/has had depression for better advice, or maybe an advice blog like fairysharkmother (though they might take a while to respond).

The thing is, if he doesn’t want to talk about it, he’s not going to talk about. So if he tells you to back off- respect his space and back off. Let him know you’re there for him and you’re available if he ever wants to talk about things with you- but leave the choice to him. Just try to be supportive and let him decide when/if he feels ready to talk about it. 

I’ll ask people to add to this, so please check the notes nonny!

Any followers with experience with depression or mental illness or who have been in similar situations- please can you chip in and give this anon some advice by reblogging this post and adding to it? I’d really really appreciate it- thank you! xx

Reblogging again so more people see this. Can anyone add any advice? Thank you. 


who cares about coachella if i wanted to be surrounded by loud racists i could visit my extended family

not true for me exactly   but this text post is too good not to reblog   racism   

Elementary Headcanons


headcanons   elementary   I love the bellxjoan one   and the honey on toast one   and the last one and the first one   ALL OF THEM   they're all great!   

Elementary Season One: 16. Details
I am better with you Watson. I’m sharper, more focuses. Difficult to say why, exactly. Perhaps in time, I’ll solve that as well.

No more posts will be made from this blog for a month. I need to let all the negativity being thrown at me die down. bye


Goodbye you wont be missed

it's shame it's only a month   goodbye mindy   show yourself out and please don't stay in touch   

fy-nghariad-fy-emrys replied to your post:at least that racist blog has only 2 pages
what racist blog what? what is happening?

This one here, it kind of caught me at a bad moment so I’m venting over it more than I usually would be x

fy nghariad fy emrys   replies   it's awful though seriously   

at least that racist blog has only 2 pages

2 pages too many but still   it's a small consolation   i hope it gets taken down   

lavlavs replied to your post:A rich, cis, straight, white female friend of mine recently returned from a family trip to India. She brought back for herself a sari (yes, I know) and for me some other piece of Indian clothing, as a late birthday present. Obviously, that’s cultural appropriation, so I did what I felt was best and politely refused the gift without even seeing it. How do I explain to her that saris are not for her to wear?
I feel that as long as it remains a gift there’s not a problem. I’d only have a problem if they started randomly wearing it. Accepting the gift isn’t participating in cultural appropriation IMO, only wearing it would be.

This is very true nonny, sorry I didn’t mention this bit! xx

lavlavs   replies   thank you for adding   


How to compare something to the holocaust:

antisemitism   this   


Joking about marginalized groups doesn’t satirize their oppression. It perpetuates it. Stop.

oppression   yes